Our God is an awesome God. If you don't already know that, you haven't given him a chance. All you have to do is ask. Ask him just the way you would ask a friend. Tell him what you need help with, and he'll help you. I've experienced this myself on more than one occasion, the most recent being today.
I asked God to give me guidance today. I was disappointed, angry and distraught and I needed his help in the worst way. So I laid out for him exactly what I needed to know, in no uncertain terms, told him how I wanted to receive the information and when I wanted to receive it. And then I waited for it.
Shortly after my request, I got what I needed.
I asked him which path I was supposed to take in my life. I was confused and befuddled with multiple directions I had tried to take or had thought about taking. He told me that writing is my path. I asked whether I should be writing novels or blog posts or articles. He told me that I am a Writer of Books. I expressed concern over my current career path distress. He told me not to stress. Writing is my primary path. Anything else that I need to do to make money for the time being is necessary, but still secondary. I am not to stress about it, I should just simply do what needs to be done. Focus, though, on my primary path.
Right away I felt more relaxed and happy and relieved... and extremely grateful for His help! And as I lathered my body with soap (I received this guidance while I was in the shower, just as I had requested), I thought to myself, "Ok, I'm going to search for blogs about novel writing." To my surprise, though, He told me that I should not spend my time reading about writing. I am to spend my time writing. Deep down I knew that -- I knew that my reading about writing is just a procrastination mechanism that I have perfected. But it's always nice to have it reinforced in simple terms by The Master.
So there you have it. I have my answer. My task list just got simplified with a figurative snap of the fingers. I have no question now.
Okay, maybe I do have one question: How in the world can I get moving on the writing?!
Monday, May 31, 2010
Plea for Help
I am having a really hard time being happy about anything. I am having a really hard time not hating myself and being disappointed in myself. I am having a really hard time not feeling like a failure, and not counting my many failures.
I think there are two things that have made me feel so down today. The first was a conversation with my mother last night. I felt like a failure just talking to her. I didn't have any positive things to tell her about anything. She asked me how my writing was going, and all I could say was "Eh." I just felt like a huge disappointment to her. And to myself. I can't blame her for how our conversation made me feel. She merely asked me questions, which caused me to look in the mirror. And I hated what I saw.
The second thing that happened was my search for jobs today. John sent me a web page with several links to companies in the the area, so I could submit my resume to them. (That act itself also has me feeling down and not good enough, but that is another story.) Practically all of the career pages I visited for those companies required me to enter my current annual salary and my desired salary. In spite of me making almost $50K when I was at my previous job, I have since then had two jobs that made $20-$30K. Those are the salaries that I have to list. And then I say that I want to make $45-50K. If the database doesn't first kick me out because I don't have a college degree, than it or the first human review process will likely kick me out because of my salary requirements (compared to my last salary).
It is incredibly frustrating to me to have my qualifications and experience judged by computer programs or people who don't know anything about me. It is so frustrating to have to beg for a decent pay or benefits. I am tired of job hopping and having to go through this process over and over again. It feels very degrading.
Aside from that, I am also very disappointed that I have not been writing. All of the troubles I am having are a result of me leaving my past job so that I could get to my 401K money so I could pay of my ex-husband's credit card debt. I will forever hate him for that -- for putting me in such a horrible position. I will hate him until the day I die. However, that time that I was off was the perfect time to write and finish my book. I did tell everyone I cam in contact with about it, and to all of those people I must look like a failure. I feel horrible that I squandered away such an opportunity. All added up, I had a year and a half to write. I probably used a total of three months for that purpose. I will always regret that and will always be very disappointed in myself for that.
So what do I do going forward? Clearly the way out of these messes (no money, unsuccessful, nothing to show for my time on Earth) is to change my behaviour; to buckle down and do the work required (start writing again, get an education to get a better job, keep applying for a job until a desirable one comes along). It should be that simple. So why is it so hard? Why do I constantly go through the same tragic missteps that not only don't move me forward but in come cases slide me backwards?
Dear God in Heaven, I am begging you to help me out of this cavern. I cannot do it on my own, not where I am sitting right now. I can't see my way and I need you to help me. and I need it to be obvious. None of the cryptic messages or signs that I am supposed to recognize or interpret. I am tired and I need something clear cut and in my face. And when you send it to me, I need you to follow up with another clear cut message to confirm that the previous message was from you. I am tired of trying to figure things out, and I am at the end of my rope. I have hinted to my Soul a few times that I think we should just end it and start over from scratch, but She has not been receptive to that, so I know that there is something She is waiting to do. I just don't know what that is. And again, I have grown tired of trying to figure it out. So will you please do me this favor and be blunt with your help? And I need it right away or I am going to lose it. I know you know that, and I know you have been waiting for me to simply ask for your help. So here I am, except I am begging you instead of asking. Please Lord, tell me what I should do, and then please give me the push to get started.
I don't recall there ever being a time when I have asked you for something with such a sincere and full heart.
I am going to stop now and go take a shower. I hope to hear from you within minutes. I will be listening.
I think there are two things that have made me feel so down today. The first was a conversation with my mother last night. I felt like a failure just talking to her. I didn't have any positive things to tell her about anything. She asked me how my writing was going, and all I could say was "Eh." I just felt like a huge disappointment to her. And to myself. I can't blame her for how our conversation made me feel. She merely asked me questions, which caused me to look in the mirror. And I hated what I saw.
The second thing that happened was my search for jobs today. John sent me a web page with several links to companies in the the area, so I could submit my resume to them. (That act itself also has me feeling down and not good enough, but that is another story.) Practically all of the career pages I visited for those companies required me to enter my current annual salary and my desired salary. In spite of me making almost $50K when I was at my previous job, I have since then had two jobs that made $20-$30K. Those are the salaries that I have to list. And then I say that I want to make $45-50K. If the database doesn't first kick me out because I don't have a college degree, than it or the first human review process will likely kick me out because of my salary requirements (compared to my last salary).
It is incredibly frustrating to me to have my qualifications and experience judged by computer programs or people who don't know anything about me. It is so frustrating to have to beg for a decent pay or benefits. I am tired of job hopping and having to go through this process over and over again. It feels very degrading.
Aside from that, I am also very disappointed that I have not been writing. All of the troubles I am having are a result of me leaving my past job so that I could get to my 401K money so I could pay of my ex-husband's credit card debt. I will forever hate him for that -- for putting me in such a horrible position. I will hate him until the day I die. However, that time that I was off was the perfect time to write and finish my book. I did tell everyone I cam in contact with about it, and to all of those people I must look like a failure. I feel horrible that I squandered away such an opportunity. All added up, I had a year and a half to write. I probably used a total of three months for that purpose. I will always regret that and will always be very disappointed in myself for that.
So what do I do going forward? Clearly the way out of these messes (no money, unsuccessful, nothing to show for my time on Earth) is to change my behaviour; to buckle down and do the work required (start writing again, get an education to get a better job, keep applying for a job until a desirable one comes along). It should be that simple. So why is it so hard? Why do I constantly go through the same tragic missteps that not only don't move me forward but in come cases slide me backwards?
Dear God in Heaven, I am begging you to help me out of this cavern. I cannot do it on my own, not where I am sitting right now. I can't see my way and I need you to help me. and I need it to be obvious. None of the cryptic messages or signs that I am supposed to recognize or interpret. I am tired and I need something clear cut and in my face. And when you send it to me, I need you to follow up with another clear cut message to confirm that the previous message was from you. I am tired of trying to figure things out, and I am at the end of my rope. I have hinted to my Soul a few times that I think we should just end it and start over from scratch, but She has not been receptive to that, so I know that there is something She is waiting to do. I just don't know what that is. And again, I have grown tired of trying to figure it out. So will you please do me this favor and be blunt with your help? And I need it right away or I am going to lose it. I know you know that, and I know you have been waiting for me to simply ask for your help. So here I am, except I am begging you instead of asking. Please Lord, tell me what I should do, and then please give me the push to get started.
I don't recall there ever being a time when I have asked you for something with such a sincere and full heart.
I am going to stop now and go take a shower. I hope to hear from you within minutes. I will be listening.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Word Prompt #2
This week's Word Prompt is from a subscription email I received from Neale Donald Walsch. Neale is the author of the "Conversations With God" series of books. Stop by his website to learn more about his books, or subscribe to his daily inspirational emails.
"It is the sweet, simple things of life that are important. When we truly embrace this, our day-to-day lives begin to change in very important ways."
What sweet, simple things are you looking past, or right over, and neither seeing or enjoying? Write in your journal for 15 minutes as fast as you can, without re-reading or editing.
Happy Journaling!
"It is the sweet, simple things of life that are important. When we truly embrace this, our day-to-day lives begin to change in very important ways."
What sweet, simple things are you looking past, or right over, and neither seeing or enjoying? Write in your journal for 15 minutes as fast as you can, without re-reading or editing.
Happy Journaling!
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Review Your Journal Monthly To Stay On Track
Happy May Day! According to Wikipedia, May Day refers to several public holidays and cultural celebrations. May 1 is also the beginning of a new month, and my birthday month at that, so that is reason to celebrate!
I'll admit that in my lifetime I have never celebrated May Day. Well, not that I can remember. For many years, though, I have "celebrated" the first of the month. To me, it has represented a new beginning; a way to start over. If I had faltered at all at school or work or with my family and friends, I used the first of the month to mentally wipe the slate clean. I gave myself permission to move on. And I always promised myself I would do better.
Granted, there have been months when I didn't do such a good job of "doing better." But at the first of the month, I would set aside the feelings of guilt and disappointment and strive to do better for the next 30 days.
My journal has always played a large part in this. I am able to look back over the past month of writings and notes and see where I have been successful and not so successful. From there I can create a plan for what I want to accomplish and how I want to do and be better.
Do you have a review process for your journal? As you look back over your previous entries and notes, how do you feel about what you have accomplished (or not accomplished)? If you do not already have a review process, I encourage you to give it a try. If you do review your journal on a regular basis, how do you go about it?
Happy Journaling!
I'll admit that in my lifetime I have never celebrated May Day. Well, not that I can remember. For many years, though, I have "celebrated" the first of the month. To me, it has represented a new beginning; a way to start over. If I had faltered at all at school or work or with my family and friends, I used the first of the month to mentally wipe the slate clean. I gave myself permission to move on. And I always promised myself I would do better.
Granted, there have been months when I didn't do such a good job of "doing better." But at the first of the month, I would set aside the feelings of guilt and disappointment and strive to do better for the next 30 days.
My journal has always played a large part in this. I am able to look back over the past month of writings and notes and see where I have been successful and not so successful. From there I can create a plan for what I want to accomplish and how I want to do and be better.
Do you have a review process for your journal? As you look back over your previous entries and notes, how do you feel about what you have accomplished (or not accomplished)? If you do not already have a review process, I encourage you to give it a try. If you do review your journal on a regular basis, how do you go about it?
Happy Journaling!
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